Why is pole dancing attractive?

  Because it’s like dancing  to the sound of  the claps of people  who love it!
The last thing that you want to do is “be an idiot” and get into one of these bad situations! So the question becomes “How would they act if they were not pole dancers?”  I don’t think you can assume your  “best friend” will actually get into one of these problems.  I’d like to try the best I can to address a couple of these scenarios.  Some examples of ways that would look bad or awkward for someone to act are:
The same girl that’s having a great time dancing with someone else when she is in the same room with him.

That person in the bar or club who will not  let you join the party because he doesn’t “get it” (or he has an important work or presentation to make).
The teacher who tells you that you “have to” “do what every other girl does”, or that “girls can’t do sissy, bimbos, and tranny moves”.
The student, friend, or co-ed that wants to impress you with a little demonstration or something that does not involve the person dancing.
So what is a good way to make sure we get to know them, and how do we get in the “experience zone” before we start talking about these things? So we need an easy way to get them to dance! Let’s start with the obvious. If you want them to dance, you have to show them you are interested.  If you’re not interested, you can’t be there. So be sure that they are excited to have you there, and that you want to have the opportunity to dance with them.
Another way to get them to dance is to be very direct and ask them why they are having the conversation.  “Do you want a dance?”  “I didn’t mean for you to say that” or “Wow that was a lot.”   If you don’t follow through and get on the dance floor, be sure to apologize.  There are two things you have to watch out for.  First is that they are going to be a lot more embarrassed than you were when you didn’t understand what was going on (and may even be uncomfortable while going through it).  So be aware of your body language.  I’ll be talking more about this in a later article, but there are ways to make a person feel more “in